The big question is answered here – my name is Hanie.
And that’s the shorter version of what appeared in the Mykad, trust me.
Me being just me, Hanie.
Me being a mama to The Teenager.
Me with my Other Half, friend, lover, confidante, husband, soul mate.
The family was adopted by Zeus and a number of other furbabies.
Very low tolerance for people with plenty of BULLSHIT. Admires person with plenty of guts, honest, smart, respectful towards others (animals, plants and human alike) resourceful and forward thinking.
ANIMAL LOVER. Cats, dogs, bears, monkeys, hen, civet cats, cows, sheep, goats, turtles, terrapins, wild cats, porcupines, tiger cubs, slow lorris - I had them all when I was a kid. Still keeping cats..and the occasional fish in the tank.
I started off this blog when I was at my lowest ebb in my life when my 17 years marriage came to an end. It became a platform to channel my thoughts and managed the pent-up anger. After a time, I found that by blogging, I also found other like-minded new friends out there. I also found out that a blog would also help a potential life partner to understand you better…..
I met George in the most unconventional way but whatever way that was, let me put it this way, I found my friend, husband, partner, lover and soul mate in him, and I thank God for making him part of my life. We got married last July 2009 in an intimate, beautiful traditional wedding.
The posts here will reflect my own journey in my phase when I was on the verge of my previous marriage followed on by my route to be a single mom and finally getting married to the Love of my life. It also reflects the challenges that I faced raising up a teenager at home, all the trial and the tribulations in her own journey to adulthood. The rants in this blog are entirely mine and mine alone and does not reflect anyone else’s.
BTW, I like Donald Trump and Richard Branson. Really. Dont like it? Fine. Sue me.
You can email me here but I reserve the right to delete any comments should the contents contain something inappropriate. (hey, its MY blog)




I just wanted to say “Thanks for the link”.
Don
The Secret Broadcast Cave
You are most welcome, Don. Ive enjoyed reading your blog too
You and your daughter are beauties!!
Thanks and yours too! Love the toothless pix of Mae.
Hi Hanie!
Came across your blog while surfing through the WordPress tag surfer. Such a small world.
Anyway, nice to see you here.
Oh hey!
thanks for dropping Jade and yes, what a small world. H
Hi Hanie – thanks for the link so I could link to you – I am enjoying reading about you!
And me of you DNM! The wonders of being a woman is never ending – good or bad
Hanie, I love how you share of yourself! If I may be so brazen, based on your background and experiences, you may like to check out this link: http://www.peacexpeace.org. This is an international non-profit organization which I worked for whose mission and vision was global peace with an emphasis on empowerment and education of women. Although I am no longer there due to my move to the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia I keep in touch and contribute as I can.
Best Regards,
American Bedu
Thanks so much Carol, for dropping by. I tried to click on the link but it says it is still under construction. I have mapped out some ventures next year of something along the same line as what I am currently doing and it would be great to get some feel on how things are done on an international level.
I came a long way from where I came from. So, the only sensible thing to do right now is to start giving back where everyone benefits.
I click your blog link from SK blog…and wonder who is this lady because you look soooo familiar…
ok..now i remember…i saw you at the Career Planning training at Permata last 18-20 of May, 09.
I love to read your writings and thoughts
Hi Aida, thanks for dropping by. My thoughts and writings here can be quite uh, different from the mainstream so be warned!!
Hope you found the PCP session useful. Feel free to contact us if there is a need for further discussion (that was me wearing the work hat).
Feel free to comment on any topic here too (that was me in off-work mode);-)
Hi Hanie,
I recently stumbled upon an image posted on your site through google search. It’s under your entry titled Busana Bridal. I am from an advertising agency in Kelana Jaya called 9 Lives Communications. We would like to know if this image is taken by you and if you can sell it to us for one of our client’s promotional material. If you are interested, please drop me an email as what I have keyed in in the E-mail field on top. Thanks alot.