I chose “what”. Not quite sure about the Malay mentality though.
I am talking about all the dimwitted advisors that seems to surround you when you and your ex are trying to make some coherent, sane, balanced, informed and mutual decisions in a divorce.
Either way, most of them seems to be some stupid stuff:
most likely to come from either side or both sides of the families (MIL, SIL, mother, sister, uncles, aunties and the entire village including the chicken and goats)
highly charged emotional outbursts accompanying some unwarranted choiced words
more choiced words with historical backgrounds from the day each partner being conceived in the womb
that the divorcing couple should be squabbling and cat fighting over every single sen, cats, furniture, kids, stocks, bonds, shares, cars, bedsheets and toothbrushes in the marital home
and that none of them are actually helping but was merely contributing to the noise pollution….
What the fuck is wrong with you people?
From my observation, usually this kind of stupid mentality only happens in the Malay family. PLEASE correct me if I am wrong.